About me
Morena de Ruijt
"Mother of 4"
My journey into motherhood began at 19, in the warm and sunny south of Spain. There, in a country without the nurturing support of maternity care, I welcomed my first child. I was young and inexperienced, my hands had never held a baby before. I read books and thought I was prepared, but nothing could truly make me ready for the adventure of motherhood. Uncertainty quickly became my constant companion. Let’s be honest, your first child is a bit of an experiment. You try, you stumble, and you do your best.
In those early days, I realized how healing a little guidance can be. Especially with breastfeeding, a ritual that feels like a dance of connection until your nipples, within days, resemble a battlefield. Ouch. A touch of support could have prevented that pain from taking root.
And that’s exactly why I deeply value maternity care. It’s not just practical help, it’s a protective energy, a gentle hand that lightens your journey. It prevents intense pain and exhaustion from crossing your path and helps you embrace your maternal strength with confidence.
I am 36 years old and the proud mom of Dylan (16), Kailyn (13), Aiden (9), and Jazz (4). Our family is a beautiful blend of love and life, shaped by two fathers, a wonderful testament to how family can flourish in countless ways. Love doesn’t follow straight lines, it finds its way through twists and unexpected turns. And let’s be honest, that’s where the magic truly lies. Social norms of the past? They belong to the dusty archives. In 2025, we celebrate unique life paths, and I carry my role as a mother and entrepreneur with pride and gratitude. ✨
Starting in April 2025, a new chapter begins for our family, a move to Vijfhuizen. After 15 wonderful years in Haarlem, I’ll leave this familiar place behind, but my care for families in Haarlem remains unchanged. Love, care, and connection are not tied to postcodes. 🌿